GUYS only..?

Ok.most of my bulletins are about guys. But none of the answers are the ones i need.can someone PLZ explain why they act different around their friends and totally sweet around us?Are they embarrassed by us?

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This is what I've seen and noticed. Guys act tough and manly around their buddies and sweet around their girls because guys are trying to adapt to the situation. Guys really want to act sweet and kind, but they also don't want to hassle around by the guys they know. Most of the time, a group of rowdy guys will always make light of guys who act sensitive to people, it's just that way. More than likely, the guys are not embarass of the girls they're with, but they just can't be seen being sensitive and mushy. It's an unwritten law among men. Hope this helps.

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When you get that answer,please let me know!!!

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No,most guys do that to get in your pants. I just act like myself around men and women. Both are alienated,but it leaves less dishonesty in the air. Tell them to be there selves around you.

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they are embarished to be themselves around there friends.

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Sound like you are dealing with immature punks. A real man would be just as sweet to you in front of his boyz as he is behind closed doors.

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i think its a sign of insecurity AND a sign of immaturity.

i , now that im a bit older, act the same around almost all.

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Unfortunately not, in my opinion at least. Despit what many young girls enjoy believing guys are actually truer to themselves with their friends. They have merely perfected the art of looking sweet to draw in pretty girls. Notice these guys are rarely as sweet with the unpopular or unattractive girls.

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guys are jerks around their friends and they don't want to be a jerk around someone that touches their special spots

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Because guys relate totally different to other guys than girls. When around other guys its all about being cool (what ever that happens to be at the time) around girls its about what ever she wants to see. Then eventually we grow up realize how stupid it is and you see the true person.

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Bros before hos. Most men know that women will come and go but friends are forever. We really like women but our friends are our main influence so we always try to appease them. Plus normally what happens is when guys find friends they are acting one way and once they find a girlfriend they think they have to act another way to make you happy and that causes us to not be ourselves. So when you do come around our friends you see the true side of us.

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No they feel like they need to show thier friends like they are still "men". They grow out of it eventually.

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No they are not embarassed by you. If they were then they would not be sweet to you at all. If they are in public with you then I am sure they are still sweet as long as no one they know is around.

Some guys have this thing with keeping up an image that their girl can not/will not change who they are. They do this so that they will not have to deal with their friends saying "You are not the same person you use to be" or "I liked you better before you met her". It is actually a complex thing that your man will have to work out before he is totally and 100% into you.

It takes time but you do not have to sit and wait for it. Just point it out to him (in private) so that he realizes he is doing it.

Hope this helps.

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There's a difference between boys and men. Boys feel they need to put up a front for their friends, a man is secure enough to show affection even when his friends are around. Some guys never grow up and maintain "boyish" behavior throughout their lives. Look a for a man and ignore the boys.

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it has nothing to do with how we feel about you. we want to be intimate and caring and show you how we feel but not in front of our friends - were just not comfortable with it in front of friends with the chance of being seen as being soft or not cool. we are always going to act different when we are alone with you versus having other people around - its just how it is -but it doesn't have anything to do with our feelings for you

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all sweetness thing going on is for you only. nobody has to see it. then its worth diminishes. but the main reason is that those friends i guess are male so he thinks he will be criticized behind his back and made fun of him.

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...every man has an image to uphold when he's around HIS friends darling. It's more of an acting out ritual with his buddies, more then it is about how sweet he acts around you babe. Surely he's a nice all around guy I'm sure otherwise. Heck!!! ...he's going out with YOU darling...isn't he?

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No its just who they are. They are one of the guys with the guys and then when their with us they're the real them. Its just the macho side that has to stay in view of their friends thats all nothign to worry about

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Worse that that.

Ever see "Grease"? That scene at the drive-in when Olivia Newton-John meets John Travolta in his greaser persona?

He has two images. The image he has with you and the image he has with his posse.

Ridicule is a terrible burden for a guy to bear, as he wants to be thought of as tough and stern.

You want to help things along? When the guys rash on him, you take him by the hand and say to the team "That's OK. He gets sex with me whenever he wants it." Give him a kiss and leave.

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It's that macho thing!